TOGETHER WE CAN PREVENT VIOLENCE AND ABUSE IN OUR COMMUNITIES
TOGETHER WE CAN PREVENT VIOLENCE AND ABUSE IN OUR COMMUNITIES
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Community Culture: the paradox of being a villager
Our definition of community has changed over the last few years; in this era where social media is intended to keep us more “connected,” and friends are just a click (tap) away, we have increasingly leaned toward isolation. Technological developments have significantly influenced how we live and how we organize ourselves as a community; the systems and the environment [...]
“Trad Wife” and “Alpha Male” Trends Raise Risk for Domestic Violence
Within the past few years, “tradwife” and “alpha male” content has taken over social media platforms by storm, influencing people of all ages. Can this content become too extreme and impact relationships in a negative way, though? The term “tradwife” is short for traditional wife. Traditional wives may participate in traditional homemaking roles such as cooking meals, cleaning the house, taking care of [...]
The Intersection of Domestic Violence and Mental Health
Domestic violence is often misunderstood as only physical abuse, but at its core, it is about power and control. Abusers may try to take away a survivor’s freedom, independence, and ability to make decisions, creating fear and dependence. For survivors with mental health diagnoses, abuse can be even more complex because those diagnoses may be weaponized against them. This [...]
Language Matters: From Hurting to Helping
Imagine this: Alex shows a fake video of a woman getting slapped to his friend group, including a couple, Benji and Jess. Everyone laughs and makes jokes like, “she had it coming”. Alex and this group are unaware that their friend, Benji, has been abusing Jess in private. After watching the video and hearing their friends laugh, Benji feels justified in abusing Jess, [...]
What Prevents Men from Asking for Help?
Historically, there are cultural and societal barriers that prevent men (no matter their age) from receiving counseling, especially for trauma. At HCWC, we serve men, yet we have only seen 114 men in counseling services from 2024 to present. Some of the barriers to counseling include: Mental health symptoms present differently in men and may not be recognized as [...]
So… What are We Looking for Here?
Last week, we talked about self-compassion and why your relationship with yourself should come before your relationship status. This week, we're talking about something that can make dating feel surprisingly complicated: figuring out what you're actually looking for. Dating today doesn't come with a universal rulebook. Some people are looking for a long-term relationship. Some want to meet new people and keep things casual. Some are interested in hookups. [...]
Temperature Check: Self-Compassion Summer Is In
Summer is in full swing! Beach trips, river floats, pool parties, and more - as the temperature climbs societal pressures can too. How often do we see advertising or other content about getting the perfect beach body or glowing up in the summer? In this article we will be sharing affirmations and discussing self-compassion & our bodies as a reminder to be kind to yourself and your body this summer. [...]
Sun, Fun, & Situationships: Soft-Launching Yourself This Summer
If rom coms have taught us anything, it’s that summer is the perfect time for flings, dating, and everything in between. That’s why we’re starting this new series, Sun, Fun, & Situationships, to spill the tea on all things summer flings and dating-related! For the next eight weeks, we’ll dive into topics like communicating effectively, dealing with mixed signals, and dating safely online. No matter the type of relationship you’re in or are searching for, all relationships deserve to be healthy. Especially [...]
What Off Campus Gets Right About Consent, Survivorship, and Masculinity
Content Warning: This article and the series mentioned include conversations about sexual assault, domestic violence, and child abuse. While reading or watching, please make sure to care for yourself and show yourself compassion. Disclaimer: Off Campus is rated TV-MA, suited for audiences 18+. Amazon Prime’s newest young adult show, Off Campus, became one of the most watched series overnight. This show has [...]
Freud and The reality of Childhood Sexual Trauma
This Child Abuse Awareness and Sexual Abuse Awareness Month, I feel it is important to shed light on a dark chapter in the history of psychotherapy. As a psychotherapist who focuses on childhood trauma, I want to share the story of the man widely known as the father of psychotherapy-- Sigmund Freud. The story of how he had tragically failed the victims of childhood sexual abuse. Early in his career, Freud brought attention to how [...]
When Reputation Hides Harm
Widespread media coverage around stories where celebrities from all areas of society (athletes, actors, musicians, politicians, religious leaders, influencers, etc.) have been accused of violating others, has shaped the ways our society understands abuse and survivorship. All too often we have seen survivors who have come forward and shared their experiences met with indifference, disbelief, and outright backlash. via GIPHY [...]
Our Power, Our Planet: The Intersection of Sustainability and Sexual Violence
April 22 marks Earth Day, a reminder of how closely our future is tied to the choices we make today. Earth Day invites us to pause and reflect on how we care for the world and the people around us. Today highlights the urgent need for more sustainable ways of living, while also challenging us to think more critically about what sustainability actually includes. When we hear the word “sustainability,” most of us automatically connect it to environmental conservation. While it’s true that conservation is a huge part [...]
